I'm Jess Embracing Hair

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I'm Jess Trying to Embrace My Hair..BUT...I needed some help!

Oh Hey!! Summer is ending and Fall is upon us and around this time of the year, I always have a borderline hair crisis! My birthday is Jess around the corner 30 days to be exact (9/29) [Accepting gifts as of 9/1] --Im Jess making sure you all know 😁! Anyway around this time, I always want to have fabulous hair...but I Jess hate committing to new hair colors and styles! So this year, for the last year in my twenties.. I'm thinking I want to be a Diana Ross Goddess with poppin' highlighter f-it I'm almost willing to be called a "Foxy Lady". #NewHairWhoThis?

But I actually didn't know where to start, so I  Jess started my search and I was looking around I found this awesome website ! Yass honey, I found this beauty below right on the site..her name is Veeona! So many styles, colors, WIGS for days!! Half Wigs are what I'm most comfortable with, but vivica fox wigs literally has any type of lace, clip-ins, and half wigs you might desire. So I think I may have found her..  Veeona..I'll be called VeeVee for short..#NewHairWhoThis

I love the option of versatility and to be able to SNATCH her off and go right to sleep..[I'm Jess Sayin] it is a wonderful feeling. Seriously beauty is pain but not in this case! It can also be very inexpensive, Jess browse around and find your "Goddess" look! Find your professional or playtime S-Hero! For the more savvy folks, try these clip-ins available in different lengths as well! Be sure to make sure you read whether its a synthetic blend or something that can be curled! You'll also find curled clip ins.. different colors and lengths..It is Jess as easy as can be!
Loving all the finds in this collection.. #LongHairDontCare

Isn't this beauty just screaming, #BadAndBougie?! I'm Jess Sayin, if you are anything like me, hair decisions are stressful. As someone that is on the go all the time, it can get very hectic making hair decisions everyday. So I plan on spicing up my collection..I'm Jess Sayin, you should too!
Tag #ImJessEmbracingHair #NewHairWhoThis and let me know what you think of the collection!
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~This Post is a Sponsored Post, All The opinions are mine..Until next time~ I'm Jess Sayin!

Jess Sayin Talks: Groupon Coupons!

This is a sponsored post. All opinions are mine.

Oh hey, what's poppin? Welcome to another post in the series of "Jess Sayin Talks"!  Please let me know in the comments on the things you may want me to write about!  This week I will be discussing Groupon coupons! In my first post I discussed my love for massages and how Groupon has been super clutch in feeding my expensive addiction. Well now, I want to share another secret with you guys...did you know that Groupon has coupons (YAS..jess YAS) GROUPON COUPONS .
Ladies and Gents, this has been making my life super easy and cutting down on unnecessary stress. Groupon coupons gives me the convenience of browsing on my phone at places I like to shop without leaving that coupon at home, in another purse, or wallet---all of which I have been guilty of doing and then spending full price money and not receiving the sale price.

Groupon Coupon Link

There are so many popular retailers that have teamed up to make this happen. I'd like to talk about a few of my favorite places one that gets entirely too much of my money, Express and what do you know one day I was browsing around Groupon and found out that Express has Groupon Coupons--as I type Jess know there are over 69 active Express Coupons available for us to use right now! I don't know about you guys but Express is perfect for me and my boo, we both get really nice clothes for professional & personal events, now lets Jess be honest, they can be a little bit pricey at least for my current coin-book and saving anywhere from 15% to 70% I certainly know it makes me feel much better! Check it out for yourselves, I'm Jess Sayin, don't miss out on deals such as these especially with holiday spending coming around!

 Shopping for some is a stress reliever, for me its more about saving money while doing it! Now a stress reliever for me after a long day..begins with mindless television, online shopping, and wine! I don't know about any of you but shopping online with a glass of wine..or two (Jess Sayin) is more than a stress reliever it is my life! While I don't mind going into a store, I much prefer the no line no wait approach. Especially as the holidays approach, I much prefer to stay out of the way! However, I'm sure like me you are thinking about what to get your family or friends as you attend holiday parties etc.. Why not consider sending them their favorite bottle from Wine.Com. I love cooking and drinking wine and while I haven't yet had an opportunity to travel to wine country; I most certainly can order from Wine.Com to try wines from all over, but most importantly get a discount sent straight to my front door! Groupon has over 44 Wine.com Coupons! You can scan Groupon to find a number of coupons from $10 off to access to the Black Friday deals they will have! With all the stress in the world, make life easier with Groupon especially the coupon section, there are so many great deals for you. Check them out!

Let me know what you find on Groupon! I'm curious to know!
~Until Next time~
I'm Jess Sayin

Jess Sayin Talks: Beauty & Wellness with Groupon

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Oh hey, what's poppin'?! I'm starting a new series called "Jess Sayin Talks", I hope you enjoy! Jess Sayin talks will include things that I enjoy doing, places and food that I like eating. Songs you might catch me singing and lastly, shows that I am watching! I want to start this one off by talking about something I like to do as a stress reliever and that is getting massages! Any person can enjoy such an experience and I jess love it! Massages not only serve as stress relievers; but also help with my back pain that I've started to experience in my post 27-year-old body. I'm Jess Sayin life after 25 got hard but after that..much much more difficult! Anywho, I'm also someone that is pretty serious about this whole adulting thing and with that--I can't spend and will not spend a bunch of money feeding my pampering habits!  So, I use my resources and I jess love sites like Groupon! Groupon has been a life saver for so many of my beauty, health, and wellness needs. Want to diet or try a dope workout class try--Groupon! Want a couples massage or pedicure try--Groupon!

Using Groupon is such a painless process, just sign up and type in the search box what you are looking for. By entering in your location, it will bring you up to speed with what is going on in your area. I personally love the ability to try different beauty establishments before committing to one! The most rewarding part about this is I've saved money!! Jess Sayin' loves saving some coins! Check out the link and I hope to save you guys some money too!  Share your thoughts! Comment on your fav Groupon experience and massage experience!
~Until next time~
Jess Sayin!

Why the Uglies Make it in the industry....

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As we come upon the weekend and as I realize how old and uninterested I've gotten in the club scene. [not a new fact to friends that truly know me ]. Anyway, I've realized I've become more interested to finding out the "why".. it has come to my attention that there are some top named industry chicks that aren't really all the success they've been hyped to be...and I think I know the reason for that....You dummies have hyped the ugly stripper hoes & video vixens....and they don't be on shit. They don't look like much or strip like much either...I'd like to give an example but I'll jess be nice for now.. Heheh

Multiple people have told me she's the worst performer ever she's weak as f but you dummies have hyped her so much you've made her valuable. Why do I claim she ain't shit?? Because she's an out of shape chick with a fat ass. Men have told me she is boring and out of shape; while that might be entertaining for some you guys  I personally go to the strip club to learn a few thangs [Jess keeping it spicy or whatever]...! She isn't an entertainer she jess uses her ass to make her money--- but why have y'all paid so much to see one big ole booty?! I've seen her twitter and the chicks are thirsty for her too... BUT WHY tho?!! She looks like every other chick on 79th street standing on the bus stop rolling her eyes and patting her weave... Average face average performance! Sooo why do I care most of you all are wondering?!! Because I'm tired of going to the strip club and paying ridiculous amounts of money to see weak booty popping which I could of seen in the comfort of my home damn it! Like an anonymous source said---

"The first dumb ass that paid $100 to get in to a club just messed it up for everyone else." The moment we thought $40 was a deal to stand in a club and throw more money we were all doomed! Y'all remember when the factory use to cost $10 or Nah?... We pay ridiculous amounts of money for wack performances and damn it...I want my money back!

I'm Jess Talking shit & Ranting ...until next time !   
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Jess Recognize The Bad Friends and Let Them Go

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Sooo I've let go of quite a few friendships and the older I get.. the more irritated I become with foolish friendships. The reason I'm choosing to write about this is because I Jess might help some of you all out with a certain somebody that is jess dead weight. Friendship.

 Friendship is defined according to My iPhone as a mutual trust and support between allies.. Hmm. Trust. AND Support. When you think of your Bestfran or even a good girlfriend do u trust her/him with information? Do you have that friend that you don't expect to support, the one that can be easily recognized versus the ones that do? Yes? Ok, so I Jess want to know why we Jess don't cut these people off.. K Camp said it.. "It ain't nothing to cut that !! Off " and well sometimes [Many Times for me Jess Sayin..] ratchet music makes sense.
This year I personally had to decide to cut off a relationship with a really good friend and while it felt like a bad break up--- I'm clear on where me and these people stand and Jess to be transparent..I am referencing more than one friendship that has fallen apart so don't read this thinking its about any particular person..KTHANKSBYE..the facts are, while we may not be "friend friends" we are grown enough to respect each other if we are ever in the same space and/or if we see each other on the side of the road I'd hope they would call someone to help me even if they didn't stop LOL [Im Jess Being Honest]. I don't expect miracles but if you see me le struggling..come on bro help me out.

 ANY-TO-THE WAY.... Losing friends can be hard, but jess think about it like this, if you have those awkward moments with this person they probably are not your friend anyway. If you have to tell different versions of a story omitting certain details because you can't trust this person they maybe shouldn't be told the story.. they are not your friend--[I'm Jess Sayin], there is a difference between sparing details and jess intentionally not telling someone something.
 The word "friend" is thrown on everything..and I jess have been IG surfing and its so entertaining when you know Ratchet 1 and Ratchet 2 aren't really friends but taking pictures talking about A1 since Day 1! Oh ok so were you guys friends when she... Called you a garden tool and tried to hook you up? [I'm Jess Askin'] ..Let me sip some damn tea before I catch some SHADE FLU

I know losing friends or realizing that a friendship is over can be difficult, but understand sometimes you have to be selfish with yourself. You have think about what the person is actually doing to help you? Is it an honest friendship? When I tell my friends certain stories or venting sessions my expectation is that they will respect the boundaries of that and if you can't count on someone I mean honestly.. really..what is their purpose in your life? [I'm Jess Sayin].. 
But once again... I'm don't know shit...I'm Jess Sayin!! 

 

I'm Jess Tired

As I sit here on my lunch break. I can barely see straight. I can barely comprehend why. Why? Why must we debate the majority so that they understand this form of terrorism can not be ignored. Yes this is my rant but I Jess can not stomach to keep silent. I'm Jess Tired 

I've been working on the relaunch of my blog and while I'd rather NOT post I will NOT Jess stay silent. Killed. 9. killed and we want to call this idiot mentally Ill for so long we've made excuses for racist behavior. Im Jess tired. 9, African American innocent people were murdered in cold blood because "He had to"; a 21 year old DEMON enters a church and kills because "he had to". But when an African American HAD TO sell lose cigarettes to make money for his family he was killed, when Trayvon Martin HAD TO have on a hoody because I do believe it was raining he was shot and killed when Mike Brown HAD TO walk away he was shot and killed. But this little shit gets to say he's mentally Ill. FUCK that and excuse my French it's a lot in this post [Im Jess Sayin]..

What makes this most sickening is that we want to make this about gun control, as I was listening to the radio they kept saying this is a gun control issue...word? We want to make this about Gun Control and mental Illness? Nah,this is about HATE, hate of a race that even when people of color are good enough shuck and jive and entertain you jerks you still manage to remain ignorant in things like this that should require compassion and sympathy! Let's Jess put race aside for one real quick second-- these innocent victims are someone's mother, son, sister, husband, wife, & grandmother .. Can you imagine losing your praying grandmother in church??? Jess think about that! 

Having a gun was something he decided. He decided to sit there while these people had church and then decided he HAD TO.. So that also means if he didn't have a gun he could have done anything he HAD TO to save his country. Now don't get it twisted he's definitely sick, but one thing Jess needs to be clear..CRYSTAL clear..this is a hate crime and NO amended gun law would have stopped someone like this. No medicine can control HATE that's in someone's head and heart. [I'm Jess Sayin] 

As a Black woman, don't tell me or anyone else to be quiet or mindful of what and how we say it. FUCK your feelings and stop asking why we are angry and look at the facts, because everyday WE HAVE to deal with different shit that some will never understand and [I'm Jess Tired] some wouldn't last a DAY in our most successful shoes. Many will never "get" this-- it's never been about the color of our skin to us, but we've had to fight our whole life to prove that we are equal and damn it we are Jess tired! Stop asking why we are angry. Stop asking us to get over something that happened years ago because you want us to forgive and forget yet you have a 21 year old shooting up sanctuaries because of a Old ass HATE mentality. He didn't come up with that on his own..he was made to believe that this was what he HAD TO do because this was learned behavior from somewhere.

So while you see an African American just know we are fucking tired and HAVE TO continue to stand up for ourselves. We are tired of being told to suck it up or what's a hate crime and what's not, because those that have the loudest opinion don't HAVE TO be black and WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND, don't discredit us with your bullshit opinion about gun control and mental illness when innocent lives were lost because a man was welcomed in a place of safety. Lastly don't tell me you understand because you don't; this system wasn't set up for us to be successful but now that we have figured it out and we don't need validation. 

This is craziness he wanted to kill a praying community in their place of peace. Then we have others who Jess don't get it but coincidencely enough we are wanted so people can jail us, kill us, and accuse us of pulling the race card. [I'm Jess Sayin].. I'm Jess tired of black African Americans AND people of color being discredited for our pain. I'm Jess tired of answering questions for others that claim they don't understand; read this no person of color is the spokesperson and wants to keep explain something that should be so painfully obvious yet I've read so many articles making this about mental illness and gun control. I'm not asking for sympathy. I'm Jess asking for a change in thought, a change in a mentality.. There are Jess so many angry emotions for those that don't even TRY TO UNDERSTAND, please do not discredit our feelings or people that are different than you ..it's still happening and if we can atleast get some of you to understand this isn't based on opinion but FACTS we might be headed in a better direction. 

I'm done. I'm Jess Tired. 

May the families of the 9 Victims never lose faith in Our Lord and Savior. My prayers go out to you all and I ask my followers to remember that a praying community can make a difference. Let this event not discourage our faith in God. I'm grateful to know God and it is in his name that these 9 our now in his loving arms. Amen.. 

Matthew 5:4 

-Jess Sayin

Why I'm Jess Sayin: Behind The Posts

What's Poppin!!!! So first of all let me jess ask, did y'all miss me?? [Or Naw?] Well I hope your answer was yes! So I realize I took some time off, but jess know it was for the best. I literally have been learning a new job all while NOW [1 year later] going through a company transformation... My life is jess a cluster, but that is jess what life is about...Organized chaos! So boom check it, I got asked a while ago why I blog, so I thought this might be a great way to get my JessSayin readers, family , and folks that are jess here to hate [HA] back on board-- this posts for you! I promise this won't be a sad ass story, I jess ain't here for that nor do I care to write a sad ass Jess Sayin prose on my inspiration.

 OK so, here it is, my inspiration literally comes from the stuff I see everyday. Guys & Gals life is so "bloggable" [I jess made that word up], when I see things that look, feel, or is shady I jess remember so i can talk about y'all later (in a funny way) I don't spread the business [I'm a trusted confidant, Jess Sayin]. Blogging does not have to be politically correct and that is what I am going for! I don't have to say the things you want me to say or even care about what anyone thinks of my writing style. Yes, I'm educated, yes I have a whole degree in ...but can i jess say; act, and do what I want here? I created this space for that very reason to be jess who I want to be. So know that what I write about isn't false. It mainly is jess my opinion which I am allow to have [Jess Sayin]...
So enjoy the ride folks I'm here to stay as always ...I'm Jess Sayin!